Halloween in Puerto Rico? Not if the Christian School Killjoys Get Their Way

Oct 30 2008 20:06 by The Insider
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I was recently sent a complaint from a parent who attended a special "chapel" session at a local Christian school this week. Topic? An invited speaker, armed with a PowerPoint slide presentation, discussed why students must not celebrate Halloween and made some "bold" and "inaccurate" assertions (she claimed were fact) to dissuade the teens and terrify the little ones.

Her are some of the reported claims (not verbatim) the speaker used as (what I consider) scare tactics for every child in the school:

  • Claim A: "Trick or treating" really means you are giving your soul to the Devil
  • Claim B: Halloween is the night that kids are kidnapped and killed in Satanic rituals
  • Claim C: Treats are likely to contain razor blades and poison
  • Claim D: Dressing up as a princess or fairy, instead of a witch or devil, will not spare you from supporting the occult
  • Claim E: Halloween was started specifically to disrupt the upcoming Thanksgiving and Christmas religious holidays

As a student of psychology, I have no problem telling you "my theory" on what this speaker was up to. Specifically, I believe that her statements are very far from "fact based", although she repeatedly stressed that they were during the speech and follow-up Q&A session.  Instead, I believe her message was a carefully crafted attempt at persuasion (i.e. manipulation) of these young minds using scare tactics.

Granted, it's impossible to know her real motivations and goals, so I emphasize that these are my thoughts, not a definitive assertion of the true nature of her motivations. Likewise, there could be another possibility, which would be a just as ill advised and more sad: Maybe she has simply been brainwashed within her own church participation through the same variety of weakly supported claims.

Is she a talking head, repeating the "burned in" philosophies she been injected with by her own pastor?

I had a young one come home the same day, who had decided she was not going to have fun with the family on Halloween after all. This comes after we had already helped her pick out her princess costume she was so excited about wearing while "trick or treating" with us. Apparently, those who lobbied against it were successful in their campaign. So the family decorating for Halloween, choosing costumes, getting ready, and trick or treating in the neighborhood is a Satanic thing to do and we must never take part. Is that the rule?

So allow us to dig a little deeper. Were her claims really facts? It is certainly difficult to argue philosophy without running yourself into a deadlock, especially when it comes to religion. But here are some counter thoughts for each of her claims:

Regarding Claim A: "Trick or treating" is just the phrase to describe going door to door collecting candy, first used in the US sometime in the 1920s. It is an American practice, but has its roots in several different cultures and historical practices such as Beggars Night, Christmas wassailing (caroling), "souling" (poor asking for food in exchange for prayers for the dead). The "trick" part is almost entirely an idol threat, although granted there are certainly some vandals who might categorize their egg throwing, toilet papering, or graffiti as under the banner of "trick". But these are often the same kids that are tagging property with graffiti "art" all through the year, not just waiting for Halloween to unleash their bad behavior.

There was absolutely no reference I was able to find that would suggest that trick or treating has anything to do with ones soul as it relates to selling, giving away, or having it taken by the "Devil". The closest reference is "souling", which is actually a positive act in which people offer food to the poor, and the poor offer their prayers for the deceased.

I would love to find out what her supporting material is for this claim.

Regarding Claim B: I am sure that some kidnappings have occurred on Halloween as on any other night. I do not know the statistics on Satanic ritual killing, and it certainly is not commonly reported in the media. What I do know is that crime statistics are highest in the summer months, not in the Fall, and that people could be kidnapped or harmed any day of the year. Oscar & Grammy winner Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother, and nephew were shot to death this week. Did that have anything to do with Halloween?

I checked the FBI, National Crime Prevention Council, New York Police Department, and Bureau of Justice Statistics and could find nothing other than some common sense tips for a safe Halloween. Nowhere did I find amber alerts reminding families of the increased risk of abduction or being killed in a Satanic ritual.

Regarding Claim C: Treats are NOT likely to contain razors or poison. Incidents have been extremely rare. Common sense tips are to examine your child's candy, removing items not commercially packaged, and eliminating items that are homemade, unsealed, opened, or fruit items, etc. This is more for germ prevention than anything else. Choosing an appropriate neighborhood is also related. I don't know anyone planning on taking their kids into La Perla for Halloween, but I am doubtful the people who live there would spend much time trying to kill kids by poisoning candy, regardless of whatever else we might suggest about the neighborhood.

You want to know the 3 biggest risks of candy/treats collected:

  • Poisoned candy is typically found to have been poisoned by the "parents" of the kids  (i.e. their own kids)!
  • Children have been found to have doctored their own candy to get attention
  • Many seem to forget that all of that "sugar" is poison itself, including these same Christian schools who dish it out or sell it to students on a regular basis. As parents we do not stop the fun of collecting, but we do confiscate and throw away most of the candy collected.

Regarding Claim D: Dressing up as princess might be a little less spooky for some of the smaller kids. But even dressing up as a Devil or Witch, is no real harm. In fact, if you follow the origins, these were designed to scare evil away, not to promote or endorse it. Let's get real: They are just costumes. But trying to discourage a little girl from dressing up as a princess, or a little boy as pirate Jack Sparrow is total killjoy behavior. So you don't like spooky costumes? That is fine. Choose something fun instead. There are lots of cute costumes for kids.

Regarding Claim E: There is no evidence I could find indicating that Halloween's date was selected to disrupt Christmas or Thanksgiving. That seems like another absurd claim. In fact, the reality is that Halloween's origins are closely related to All Saint's Day which was original May 13th until moved to November 1st by Popes Gregory III and IV. The term derives from "Hallow" and "Eve", meaning "Saint" and "Evening". Since historically new days were considered to begin at sundown, the evening of October 31st could have effectively been considered the start of All Saint's Day. So it is certainly related to the Fall Harvest, but there is no evidence that the date was chosen to disrupt Thanksgiving or Christmas, which are (for the most part) unrelated events.

Note: I invite all of my readers, many of whom have children in Christian schools with a similar policy, and many of which are members of Christian churches that share these beliefs. Please send your feedback. If this is something you feel strongly about, tell us why.

From the research I have done, the lack of evidence for what I consider profoundly exaggerated claims of fact, are just good old scare tactics intended to brainwash the students, or perhaps to "put the fear of God into them".

Is the real issue here the association with "All Saint's Day"? Remember, only Catholics celebrate the saints. Other Christian sects typically do not approve. I am not going to start that debate, but I am raising it as a possibility for the objections against Halloween by some of these schools.

Listen. Instead of scaring the "hell out of these kids", why not advocate some new rules for a safe and fun Halloween? Why not promote a costume party and permit only non-scary costumes? The kids would love it, and you would successfully keep the fun, and subtract the "devilish" associations. I think that would be a reasonable compromise and would not require manipulation/brain washing to do.

For those parents of kids who are taking their kids trick or treating tomorrow, regardless of what the schools are trying to mandate, keep in mind that "falling" is the biggest risk to your child! Here are some safety tips:

  • Go with your kids. Teenagers will be content to walk 50 feet ahead of you, without feeling "uncool". If they don't agree, keep them home. Little ones should never be unattended in public, any night of the year.
  • Trick or treat during the early evening, between 5-8pm in a safe neighborhood. Avoid the roads later as there is a real danger of a higher incidence of impaired drivers. Consider hosting a Halloween costume party instead, or attending one with friends and family.
  • Take away any treat items that are not commercially packaged and sealed. Even better, confiscate most of the candy for the benefit of the health of your children (i.e. think diabetes/obesity).
  • Choose the costume wisely. Shoot for lighter and/or reflective colors. Choose makeup over masks for better visibility. Bring some flashlights. You need to make sure drivers can see you.

And for you anti-Halloween, killjoy churches and schools: Stop trying to scare kids with your PowerPoint presentations and manipulation of fact. God can be in their lives without sucking all of the fun out of it. You do not need to make them feel like they are committing a sin, subject to damnation, or defying their God just because they go trick or treating, dressed up as Spongebob or Dora the Explorer. It could be argued that the costume that would be the most scary would be that of a "priest". There are some among them who have certainly done some real unGodly/unspeakable harm to children in this world. Witches, devils, zombies and ghouls are all just make believe. Keep that in mind.

Happy Halloween! :)

The Insider

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Oct 30 2008 20:06 by magiepr

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I like this page because it gives me an opportunity to challenge my opinions as a Puerto Rico lover. Although "The Insider" has an arrogant demeanor in his/her comments, I must say I end up agreeing many times with him/her.

However, Insider, I strongly disagree with you on this one. You are just as misinformed as the resource this school brought to the kids. As a Christian, I don't support halloween and it's not because I have been "brainwashed".

I will take you up on your invite for feedback and let you know that Halloween is originally a Celtic festival (from Celts in acient Ireland). The Festival was named Festival of Samhain which was actually the end of summer and also their new year. Among the many beliefs that are opposed to biblical practices, the Celts believed that this day the dead returned to the earth. Part of their tradition was to dress up and present sacrifice to these spirits as well as tell each others "fortune".

After this, it evolved slowly into what we have today, "all hollows eve" etc. Point is, I don't need to get into claims a thru e because just what I have shared is reason enough for me not to participate. I respect those that do and demand respect for me not wanting to participate in any way in an activity that is not registered in the bible and does not glorify God, Jesus and H.S. I'm not a killjoy, I just know too many ways to have fun with my family and edify my faith. Repeating the acts of those that did it for all the wrong reasons is not one of them.

Sorry so long. Willing to answer any questions...
Oct 30 2008 20:06 by admin

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I appreciate your feedback. I am also glad to note that although you do not participate in Halloween, you do agree that the the school was misinformed (as quoted below). I believe you may not find that we are so distant philosophically after all regarding this matter. You said:

"You are just as misinformed as the resource this school brought to the kids."

I was speaking specifically about the approach taken at this school (and generally about others who would take the *same* approach). Although I would be curious as to the reasoning for any group trying to persuade others not to participate in a largely commercial (and inconsequential "holiday"), I do respect your right to choose for your family.

However, this school was just pushing its agenda on the students who come from many different autonomous families (i.e. responsible for their own family values), almost entirely Christian families, and *all* entitled to their own beliefs just like you and me.

Therefore, if the school wanted to build a case against Halloween, they could have done that. However, it should have consisted of valid claims, not unsupported statements (remember, a through e) designed to scare the kids.

You, in your brief note on why you do not celebrate, did a much better job. I.e. You do not want "to participate in any way in an activity that is not registered in the bible and does not glorify God". I get it. You are conservative and you gave me a reason. You did not have to make any outrageous claims to get your point across.

By the way, that same school had a "Festival of Lights" on the same day, during which they allowed the kids to dress up representing people of other cultures and to offer blessings to them. I have no problem with that. I think it was great. The problem was the other nonsense they were trying to brainwash the kids with.
Oct 30 2008 20:06 by newbe

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Insider,

Thank you for your analytical approach to this issue. I am wondering, if parents who celebrate holloween were sent a notice regarding this type of "Presentation".

It seems that this school is one of my very few options to matriculate my children, and since I do not belong to any religous denomination at this time, I wonder how would this impact the academic experience, teacher-parent relationship, and student-teacher relationship. I would not want the school staff/administrators to "drill", to my children, beliefs that are not practice by us, but to teach them effectively and respectfully.

As mexican/puertorican woman, I do celebrate the day of the death as well as halloween. Are my children, or me as a parent, going to be critize or "attack" by others, including staff/administrators? Just wondering!
Oct 30 2008 20:06 by admin

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newbe,

There was not notice of the presentation or its content that I am aware of. The parent who informed me of it had slipped into the morning chapel session that day out of curiosity.

Note: This school was not Inspiration Christian Academy, although they also do not allow any celebration of Halloween at the school, and discourage students, parents, and teachers from participating.
Oct 30 2008 20:06 by admin

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BTW - I am not so sure that you would ever be attacked or challenged over Halloween, unless you violated the school's policy and sent your children to school in costume or with artifacts of the holiday. Of course, that would be breaking a rule and would be disrespectful to the school. I would expect they would request a meeting with you to discuss the policy, as opposed to anything less desirable than that.

I am sure that many of the admins would be displeased that you celebrate it, but they could do nothing about it, since you are entitled to your own beliefs. They are also businesses, so I am highly doubtful that they would ever sacrifice the year's tuition for one or more students over a Halloween costume.

However, choosing a Christian school for your children is typically something done by Christian families. Your child would certainly be exposed to Christian teaching while in the school.

It is situations like the above that are unfortunate. Yet these types of situations do not need to occur a Christian school. There could have been a better approach that would have been more fair and rational.

I am not sure what your particular beliefs are. However, even if you consider yourself an Atheist, exposure to Christian values for your child would not be such a terrible thing. You have to be careful with the curriculum though, as I have seen a grade 3 "Science" quiz that contained 30% of its question about Old Testament "Creation" story. Not exactly my idea of Science, and occurrences of this sort may be unacceptable to some parents, depending on their beliefs.

By the way, when you mention "teaching effectively" you should be aware that there are various different educational/academic systems being used by the various schools, which differ significantly from one to another. If I were you, I would tour each school, and interview the admins, spending time with them to understand which system they employ. Not all systems are created equal, and not all will work best for your children, particularly if it is significantly different from the system they have already developed a familiarity with.
Oct 30 2008 20:06 by magiepr

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Hi newbe,

With all due respect, if you don't share the beleifs of an institution, why would you want to be a part of it? Why would you want to sign your kids up for a Christian School which in it's own name is being straight forward about their values if you don't share the same values? Why would you pay for it and sponsor something you don't agree with?

You could just avoid all the uncomfortable situations this decision could lead you into.

Just my 2 cents.

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